Thanks Nico
,sorry to be such a thicky!! My school reports always said could do better and that was before I discovered wine!! 
It's a shame though that it's not possible for a chatroom here,as you can't really have the same types of "conversations" on the Chitchat forum as you can in a chatroom,and the "conversations" would take up a lot of room and be very slow.
I know we could use msm,but as I'm living at my parents house and their computer wont allow it I'm feelin a bit isolated sob [:'(] Just have to hope the move into my new house isn't too far away I suppose! 
Please look up the link below to see the latest on my friend Di's fight for cancer treatment xxx
http://www.portsmouth.co.uk/news/39Look-at-me--I39m.4351324.jp
http://www.portsmouth.co.uk/news/Cancer-victim-fears-her-appeal.4373236.jp